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Sports are one of the largest sectors of entertainment in the United States. From youth to professional levels, very few people can avoid witnessing some aspect of sports in their immediate environment. Sports-related advertisements are found everywhere- from grocery stores to drug stores to restaurants. While pro sports rake in the most money for cities and the country as a whole, college athletics breed a different type of following.
College sports create an unmatchable atmosphere in countless arenas and stadiums across the country. Different regions boast distinct features and aspects for conferences and teams. Fans remain loyal to colleges and universities for various reasons. Almost every college sports enthusiast can attest to how special college athletics truly are.
College Athletics Allegiances
Whether someone roots for their alma mater, cheers for their local team, or becomes a fan for any other reason, the loyalty in college athletics typically runs deeper than virtually any other level of competitive sports. Professional sports are conducted like businesses. Anything below college athletics does not have enough skill to keep a lasting interest for people not directly related or closely tied to players.
NCAA (National Collegiate Athletic Association) major sports have just the right combination of skill and heart that make the world of college athletics unique. Fans everywhere stick with their teams through the thick and thin which makes winning and championships mean so much more in the collegiate level.
Fans everywhere rep their favorite teams no matter where in the country or even world they might find themselves. Most mid to large sized colleges and universities have an alumni network than expands outside of the campus and the surrounding area. College sports fans typically don’t find themselves as a lone supporter and can usually find other fans not too far away.
Heated and Historical Rivalries
In the twentieth century, most current professional sports teams were founded. However, a few were created in the mid to late nineteenth century. Many colleges and universities across the country were founded in the 1700s and 1800s with some of the oldest dating back to the seventeenth century. Obviously sports were not a main concern at the immediate existence of these higher educational institutions. However, many schools picked up on sports like football and baseball for students to enjoy and provide entertainment to countless spectators. Some of the oldest rivalries in the nation are between colleges and universities that have been around far longer than any most professional sports organization.
According to the NCAA, the first ever college football game was played in 1869. Not long after, rivalries started to become a staple in college athletics. Yale and Princeton is the oldest rivalry in college football dating back to 1873 (CITE). My grandfather’s alma mater, Lafayette, holds the seventh oldest rivalry in college football with Lehigh which started in 1884. Rivalries are intense because many of them date back to before most fans today were even born. The roots especially in college football run deep and provide historical backing for why so many schools and fans look forward to rivalry week every season.
For the Love of the Game
Amateur sports draw in fans for numerous reasons. One is that players typically play with more heart and for the love of the game. They don’t have to constantly think about performing for a check or always worrying about their public image. Collegiate sports typically breed a greater love for the game without the constant pressure of performing for monetary value (although college sports are trending more towards professionalism as NIL deals increase). Fans all around the country have a harder time relating to a professional athlete who is constantly in the public eye and does not appear to be as relatable as a college athlete.
Another is the fact that college athletics provide a unique environment that allows fans to feel “closer” to players. Many alumni can relate to being a student at a particular school and some can even recount their days of being a student athlete. Professional players are often seen as celebrities while college players are viewed as college kids who excel at their respected sport. Almost everyone can understand a college kid better than a celebrity who might seem out of touch with the public.
College athletics is the last level of sports that shows pure love for the game. When athletes are making tens of millions of dollars, it is easy for fans to question players’ motives. The love either stems from checks that come from the game or the game itself. Many people cannot relate to a professional athlete who might appear to be playingas if they are part of a business rather than a team player. Egos are constantly an issue in pro sports. College student athletes generally appear to be humble and therefore more relatable .
The Future of College Athletics
The future of college athletics is already experiencing a major shift. Scholarships and guaranteed playing time are no longer enough to gain the top recruits in the country. NIL deals draw in athletes who are looking to capitalize off of their image. College sports are becoming more business like, and more similar to professional sports.
The scope of college athletics is changing drastically. Amateur sports now refer to levels below college athletics. NIL deals bring a complicated dimension to countless NCAA programs across the country. Money hungry programs will unanimously overpower opponents; ultimately, a more efficient system of checks and balances is essential.
Ultimately, college athletics are essentially becoming pay to play. Major market teams will dominate their respected conferences for years to come. Mid to smaller market schools will parallel similar markets in professional leagues with limited payrolls. Hopefully, there is a change to keep college sports from evolving completely into more professional leagues. College athletics need the pure love for the game to stay for the long run.
Source
NCAA.com, Molly Sequin |. “The 19 Oldest Rivalries in College Football.” NCAA.com, NCAA.com, 22 Nov. 2022, https://www.ncaa.com/news/football/article/2022-11-22/19-oldest-rivalries-college-football.
Anybody who is somewhat interested in sneakers knows how popular New Balance (NB) has been over the past few years. Especially due to collaborations with various labels and designers, the brand founded in Boston has seen an increase in demand for a majority of its models. Only five years ago someone wearing New Balances would have been viewed as an outsider in the sneaker community; Jordans and Adidas still run the game, but NB has proved itself to be a strong competitor who takes pride in comfort and craftsmanship. The NB 550 has seen an exorbitant rise in popularity over the past few years.
The New Balance 550s have gained tons of attention since they have been relaunched in 2020. The model initially released out in 1989 when low-top basketball sneakers were not a common sight in the late ’80s. Thanks to Teddy Santis, the founder of the New York based fashion and lifestyle brand Aimé Leon Dore (ALD), the New Balance 550 saw an overdue revival and tons of hype surrounding the silhouette. Santis helped kickstart the 550 craze in September 2020 when he decided to team up with New Balance and bring the model out of the vault. Since then, the NB 550 has proved to be a retro sneaker that has been part of the “dad shoe” trend over the past few years. There are no signs of slowing down for the New Balance 550 anytime soon.
Recent NB x ALD Collabs
The recent pack of the Aimé Leon Dore x New Balance 550 comes in three colorways- brown, olive, and purple. All three have their own unique colors, but the purple stood out the most to me personally. The recent batch of 550s all sport the same color blocking as the first group that was released in 2020. Teddy Santis knows how to execute a sneaker collab to near perfection. There are not many aspects you can nitpick about his work with New Balance.
Overall, the ALD x NB 550 is a timeless retro sneaker that is extremely versatile and wearable. From basketball shorts to cargos pants to chinos and joggers, the 550 can be worn with a wide variety of clothing. The “aged” midsole is a perfect shade of cream; the aged trend can be a hit or miss, but the look on the NB 550 is a no brainer. The model already flaunts vintage looks, so the cream midsole is a perfect touch to a classic sneaker
New Balance is in a weight class with the big boys now. Obviously Nike and Jordan have been the frontrunner for quite some time with no signs of slowing down. However, New Balance has given Adidas a run for their money. Collaborations as of lately have propelled NB into one of the most popular sneaker brands over the last few years. Made in USA shoes have been a staple of New Balance for quite some time. They typically have better quality control and higher standards than other footwear giants who focus more on mass production which causes a considerable drop-off in quality. Especially in the ALD x New Balance 550, the quality is well worth the retail price.
Proven Quality
The leather on the ALD 550s feels sturdy and is of solid quality overall. This particular pair has great attention to detail and excellent quality control; the simplicity makes the sneakers a unique and often wearable pair. The purple is a very dark shade which allows for a high wearability. Cream and off-white compliment each other to near perfection. A simple yet distinctive pair like the ALD x NB 550 brings a classic look back with a modern twist.
The shade of purple is dark enough to pair well with a variety of colors, but is not too bright either. ALD’s logo on the insole adds a nice touch to the subtle aspects of this pair. Cream and purple on the soles makes for a unique combo that compliment the midsole and upper hues.
Distinct logos are no stranger to the NB x ALD 550 collab. Aimé Leon Dore’s apple/New York logo stands out and represents quality goods. Anyone who pays attention to the New York based label knows their clothing is constructed with care and high caliber materials. ALD takes pride in being simple yet unique; this particular pair displays the classic logo that is recognizable at first sight.
New Balance x Aimé Leon Dore
Collabs with extra features separate from the sneakers stand out compared to those that don’t. Extra laces come in cream and purple for this particular pair. Both would compliment the shoes well, but the cream or white would look best for a classic look.
Basketball is a common motif in Aimé Leon Dore’s collections, photos, logos, and brand inspiration. New Balance collaborated with Santis of ALD on a hoop-themed collection of apparel, bags, and accessories. The “All-City Sonny League” collection seeks to bring people together; the main expression for the set is “International Friendship Through Basketball.” Teddy Santis found his own lane to bring basketball and retro shoes and apparel together in a seamless fashion. He continues to hone in and focus on basketball in his ties with New Balance.
The box would be the only negative aspect in the ALD NB 550 partnership. Although the Aimé Leon Dore spell out adds a unique touch to the typical New Balance box, the overall quality is subpar to say the least. The box is extremely flimsy and feels cheap. New Balance stayed true to the original 550s with a vintage look and feel.
The New Balance basketball-apple-caterpillar logo gives the tongue a classic and contemporary addition. ALD logos are not lacking on the 550 collab. Teddy Santis’s branding stands out with the basketball-apple printed on one insole and on the back tab as well. He makes sure to stay true to New York, keeping the recognized logo pure and noticeable.
Creative Connection
Teddy Santis is a monumental figure in New Balance’s revival of the 550. The two forces teamed up to bring some hype to relaunch the model before releasing more GR pairs that anyone can get their hands on. The ALD raffle for the recent brown, olive, and purple NB 550s was handled extremely well; the site was simple to enter on and allowed individuals to enter for all three colorways to increase their chances of securing a pair. Anyone who was not selected for the raffle got an opportunity to preorder the colorways they missed out on the first time.
Many people have mixed feelings about preorders. Although the preorders will not ship until Spring 2023, Aimé Leon Dore made sure their supporters would be taken care of. For anyone who wanted a pair of ALD 550s and did not care about resell prices or hyping “dying down,” the raffle and preorder gave both NB and ALD fans a deserving chance to secure a pair for retail price.
New Balance has stepped up to the plate over the recent years. Collabs with Aimé Leon Dore, Joe Fresh Goods, and JJJJound have proved to come with high expectations, quality materials, and exceptional execution.
ALD x NB 550 On Feet
Outlook for Aimé Leon Dore
The future between ALD and New Balance looks promising. Both labels clearly have chemistry together; they will have more models and collections to work on and explore more possibilities for future collaborations. Teddy Santis prides himself on quality rather than quantity. New Balance has been moving in the same direction especially when they manufacture some sneakers in the States. Obviously, they could mass-produce far more pairs overseas with inferior materials. New Balance and ALD are a near perfect fit as they would rather look for higher quality pieces even if profits slightly decrease.
Santis brings an original flare to streetwear and sneakers. He knows how to connect with the youth and continues to put out quality pieces that resonate with many people. Basketball brings people together no matter how they relate to it; Santis has been able to use a few essential themes to lead the way for Aimé Leon Dore. Brands like New Balance are working with young, up and coming, and relatable creatives and artists now more than ever in the history of the Boston-based brand.
Overall, New Balance and Aimé Leon Dore have an established connection with no signs of slowing down. Future apparel collections and more sneakers will continue to showcase the creative focus of each contributor. Both parties will have the room to stay true to their respective brands while experimenting with subtle yet appealing changes. Teddy Santis is not taking his foot off the pedal with his creative control in collaboration with New Balance.
Life often works in weird ways. Theories and studies cannot teach valuable lessons that solely come from experience. Sometimes you have to go through certain situations to know more about the future.
Nothing can replace the past. Lessons come and go but the best seem to stick around forever. The mentioned lessons are some that have stuck with me the most in my young life so far.
The Future Can Never Be Fully Planned For
It is impossible to fully plan out the future no matter how much time or energy is put in. There is only so much we can plan for in a world full of everlasting change. Being okay with the unknown is essential in almost every aspect of life.
Overthinking Leads to Undesirable Outcomes
Thinking too much rarely solves the problems or issues we find ourselves worrying about. Spending unnecessary time thinking about the what-ifs takes time away from valuable action and planning.
Success Rarely Comes From a Straight Path
Any worthwhile form of success often does not come along a straight and narrow path. Ups and downs as well as turns and obstacles are common on any journey towards achieving something substantial. An uncomplicated path does not typically offer much longevity.
Life Always Throws Curveballs
Things do not go exactly as envisioned and planned throughout most of one’s life. There will always be unforeseen events and circumstances that force someone to adapt sooner than later. Curveballs can lead to situations that are essential to experience.
Heartbreak Comes in Many Forms
In almost every type of media and entertainment outlet, heartbreak coincides with romance. However, heartbreak is not limited just to romantic aspects. Friends and family break hearts and sports teams constantly do the same.
Nobody Wins Without Adversity
Before any type of worthwhile or long-lasting success comes failure. Some of the best in virtually every profession have failed countless times before rising to the top of their respected field. Adversity builds character that becomes essential to become a winner of any type.
Everything Can Go Right and Things Still Might Fail
Sometimes things don’t work in our favor for many reasons. Failure can for many reasons outside of our control. Undesirable outcomes sometimes happen for no explainable reason.
Watch Who You Call a Friend
Friends can make or break your social life. With the rise of social media, it seems like our social circles increase exponentially just by knowing more people. However, online “friends” do not come close to the magnitude of real friendships. True friends never make you question their loyalty.
Take Time for Yourself
We live in a world that constantly praises hyper-productivity and constant work. It is necessary to avoid burn out when possible. Whether it is reading a book, watching a show or game, or spending time with quality people, there are plenty of ways for someone to take time for themselves to relieve stress and anxiety.
The Best Things in Life Can’t Be Bought
Love, happiness, joy, and peace are just a few intangible things in life that cannot be bought. Money can definitely make life easier, but it cannot buy happiness outright. Intangible aspects of life are far more valuable than any materialistic good in the world.
Focus on the People Who Support You
In a world that can seem cold and selfish, it is essential to focus on the people in life who support you and do so openly. Support is necessary to get through any sort of adversity in life. Any amount of support should not be taken for granted.
Keep the Family Close
Friends come and go, but family is forever. Family is not limited to blood, but instead it is defined by loyalty and undeniable support for an extended period of time. A valuable lesson to never forget is that a healthy life requires a healthy family.
Don’t Be Afraid of Change
One of the few constants in life is change. Sometimes change can be for the better or for the worse, but it will always be present. Why resist change that is bound to happen?
Success is Subjective
There are no set measures for success in life. Like many preconceived notions, success is not solely calculated by monetary value. Success may be subjectively based on umerous aspects like health, happiness, relationships, and overall well-being.
Life Isn’t Fair
If life was fair everyone would have equal opportunities to achieve everything they want to. There’s no reason to dwell on unfairness especially since there is little we can do to change the unfair aspects. It is better to focus on the good and push through when life treats us unfairly.
Distance and Silence Reveal True Colors
One of the most insightful lessons I have learned rather recently is the fact that distance and silence often reveal one’s true colors. It is easy to tell the well-being of a relationship when someone is around on a regular basis. Distance and silence shows who is loyal and trustworthy over time.
Comparison Kills Joy
To compare yourself to others often leads to self-doubt and less overall self-confidence. Everyone’s life is different with different circumstances. The only person to compare to is previous versions of yourself.
Money is Far from Everything
One of the most valuable lessons in my life so far is to never forget how money does not mean everything. Money will never buy happiness. Issues still persist and new ones will arise no matter how much money someone possesses.
Alone Time is Essential
Everyone needs alone time for numerous reasons. Introverts, like myself, typically need it more often than others. Alone time can be extremely beneficial to recharge and learn new things about yourself as well.
Be Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable
Any type of worthwhile and/or long-lasting growth does not occur in the comfort zone. Uncomfortable situations and circumstances lead to improvement in numerous aspects of life. It is essential to get out of the comfort zone to reach new heights and learn valuable lessons.
An Active Mind Needs an Active Body
A healthy human needs to keep both the mind and body active as much as possible. One cannot stay stagnant while the other gets all the attention. All aspects of the body need some sort of exercise.
Never Force Anything
What is meant to be in life will find its way to you. There’s no reason to force anything that does not come naturally. Stay open to new experiences that can shape your future significantly.
Be Forgiving
To forgive does not mean to forget. Sometimes we have to forgive the people closest to us more than we would like. Be forgiving as nobody is a perfect human being.
Appreciate Your Journey
Life can be exciting, frustrating, amazing, and sometimes even confusing. The journey teaches indispensable lessons that help guide us through life. It is essential to take time to appreciate your individual journey as life goes on.
Anyone interested in sneakers knew how powerful Adidas was at its peak in the past decade. Collabs with Kanye West and Pharrell Williams soared in terms of demand and popularity. The German-founded footwear and apparel label heavily relied on classic models like the Superstar and Stan Smiths for most of the brand’s existence. There was a rather recent monumental “boost” that impacted the industry as a whole.
Kanye West’s Yeezy line is arguably the best thing to happen to Adidas since its creation in 1949. However, before the existence of Yeezys came an influential model that propelled the sneaker label to new heights. With the introduction of the Ultra Boost, Adidas brought itself to the forefront of lifestyle, streetwear, and athleisure niches simultaneously. After Kanye was first seen rocking a pair of Ultra Boosts, the rest fell into place for the new silhouette that debuted in 2015. Shortly after, the first Yeezy dropped and Adidas never looked back (for a while).
Time For A Boost
During the middle of the 2010s, Adidas sought after a new identity. The brand with the three stripes desperately needed more leverage to stay up to par with its biggest competitors. Generally, Adidas was seen as a brand focusing on classic models originally released decades ago. Nike was always the more innovative and better looking big brother; nobody could ever get the two brands confused in terms of versatility.
In 2015, Adidas released the Ultra Boost, which is still considered one of the most comfortable shoes on the market today. The innovative “boost” took the sneaker industry by storm. Responsive and bouncy materials allowed for an experience close to “walking on clouds.” The new silhouette became an instant classic especially when Kanye West started to wear them. Ultra Boosts helped Adidas stay relevant as they came out with an innovative and visually appealing sneaker that would appeal to sneaker enthusiasts and everyday people alike.
Adidas knew it was time for change and introduced the boost technology that propelled the label through the rest of the decade. Collaborations have always been popular, but soon became a staple for many sneaker brands in recent history. The artists a label chooses to work with says a lot about the overall brand itself. Adidas realized the potential it had with numerous creatives and designers.
The Life of Yeezy
Many sneakerheads appreciate the Nike Air Yeezy and and Air Yeezy II even if they like the shoe or not. The releases sold out instantly and paved the way for other non-athletes to collaborate with footwear giants. After a brief stint with Nike, Kanye West was a free agent in the sneaker world. Despite not being an athlete, the Chicago-based rapper and designer sought to make monumental deals in the fashion world. He would not let his talents be denied simply due to the fact that he had no professional sporting experience.
In November 2013, Adidas and Kanye West inked an endorsement deal that would change the sneaker game forever. Ten years prior, nobody could imagine a fashion designer signing a deal like West did with the German sportswear company. Adidas Yeezy or simply Yeezy was founded shortly after the deal. The duo debuted the first Yeezy in 2015 with the Adidas Yeezy Boost 750. The high-top sneaker was just the beginning of the long run for West and the footwear giant he partnered with.
The Yeezy 350 Boost came out in Summer 2015 and became an instant hit. Releasing several colorways of the first model and eventually a V2, Adidas and Kanye were on a tear for multiple consecutive years. Other models such as the 700s, and most recently the Foam Runners proved to be extremely popular as well. People who were die-hard Nike fans ventured outside of their typical habits. Even non-sneaker enthusiasts quickly picked up on Yeezys. The new kicks were a hit in cities, suburbs, the States, across the pond, and virtually anywhere people wear sneakers. Kanye West and Adidas showed no signs of stopping as the decade started to come to a close.
Adidas Yeezy 350 Boost Turtle Dove (SneakerNews.com)
Jumped Over Jumpman
Along with its meteoric rise in the new Yeezy line, Adidas saw its overall sales evidently skyrocket. Collaborations with Pharrell, Pusha T, and brands like Bape, Palace, and Undefeated pushed other products besides Yeezys such as Ultra Boosts and NMDs. Boost was practically in every sneaker retail and resale store around the world. The German-founded brand gained more respect in competition with its American-based big brother. Rather than its typical role of playing second fiddle, Adidas was seen as the 1B to the 1A of Nike around 2015/2016.
Nike had Jordan while Adidas had Yeezy. Sneaker enthusiasts everywhere could not stop the comparisons between J’s and Yeezys. Everyone had to put in their two cents no matter if it was warranted or not. Even Kanye West added to fuel to the fire when he dropped an unofficial diss track towards Nike. In his song, “Facts,” on The Life of Pablo, West clearly let the world know how he felt about Jordan Brand:
“Yeezy, Yeezy, Yeezy just jumped over Jumpan.”
The debates of whether Yeezy did in fact jump over Jumpman only intensified after the song released in February 2016. Despite the rapid rise of the Yeezy line, Jordan has been around for far longer and resonates with more people across the world. Jumpman’s numbers are almost untouchable compared to those of other sneaker brands.
Post Ye
Adidas has a lot of questions to answer as the 2020s bring a new era for the company. As the 2010s came to a close, the Yeezy line started to slow down despite still remaining popularity among the masses. The brand with the three stripes eventually lost its spot as the unanimous number two sneaker company in the world. The gap between two and three is a lot slimmer than it was in the middle of the last decade.
After the huge news of Adidas annihilating their deal with Kanye West in October 2022, the sportswear company no longer boasts a clear outlook as the new decade progresses. Sales inevitably crashed shortly after the news broke out. Even with Adidas releasing the same models without the Yeezy name, many people will most likely not purchase the sneakers with the same price point.
The rest of the decade will determine how the German-based sportswear company’s future will look. There is still time to rebound after the Kanye West era, but Adidas must act fast before they are pushed to the wayside by numerous competitors. Only time will tell how Adidas will overcome the roadblock after losing their biggest endorsement deal in the company’s history.
Within the past few years, I have quickly realized quality is almost always more important than quantity. A medium-sized closet with quality, staple pieces beats a large wardrobe consisting of just okay clothing. Exceptional materials and longevity are essential for a piece of clothing to stay in a solid rotation. New pickups can be rewarding and exciting especially more sought after items that require some dedicated hunting.
Earlier in 2022, I donated and sold over 40% of my closet. It makes no sense to continue to hold on to clothes that barely get worn. There is too much time and space taken up by things we don’t find useful anymore. Now, it is vital to personally only buy clothing that will last a while and will get worn often.
Mind Over Matter
When we clutter our personal space, the mind often feels confined too. Focusing more finding useful materialistic things temporarily places over consumerism in the rearview mirror. Vintage and second hand clothing strongly promote reusability and keeping goods circulating in the market.
Fast fashion is more prevalent now than ever in the history of clothing. The rise of the vintage market over the past few decades promotes economically and environmentally friendly choices from countless consumers.
Placing an emphasis more on quality lets pickups become more meaningful and thought out.
Vintage Finds
Casual collectors, serious hunters, and vintage enthusiasts alike know the feeling of finding a hidden gem at the local thrift store or second hand shop. One person throwing away an old shirt might be another’s perfect vintage find. Subjectivity rules in almost all aspects of fashion, especially within the vintage realm. Universally, condition and age are more objective than other features of vintage pieces.
The vintage market is ever evolving. Trends come and go just like other niches. However, some of the best vintage clothing comes with more time. Aged pieces are often worth more than newer ones; rarity brings more thrill in the hunt for the next vintage pickup.
Sports vintage resonates with countless collectors. Timeless pieces from memorable games, celebrations, and championships rarely go out of style. Old school lettering and logos have seen a major resurgence in the recent past. A vintage t shirt will always be a classic staple that pairs well with streetwear and sneakers alike.
This Pittsburgh Pirates 1994 All Star Game shirt caught my eye as soon as I saw it. Black classic lettering with yellow bordering and vice versa both stand out effortlessly. The 1994 MLB All Star Game logo showcases the Pittsburgh skyline with one of the city’s prominent bridges in the forefront.
Vintage sports clothing is easily one of the most coveted subcategories in the vintage world. Throwback uniforms and logos contribute a great deal of importance to vintage sports pieces. Historical aspects of franchises across various sports provide even more significance.
Undefeated Pickups
Founded in Los Angeles, CA in 2002, Undefeated is a well respected sneaker boutique and apparel brand. There are several brick and mortar stores across the United States as well as in Japan. As a brand known for its quality and craftsmanship, the label has not been shy in terms of collaborations. Nike, Jordan, Adidas, Bape, and Anti Social Social Club are just a few well known brands that have produced remarkable collabs with Undefeated.
Good fitting quality pants are not easy to find especially for men over six feet tall. After looking around on Grailed, some Undefeated cargo pants caught my attention. Once they came in the mail, they did not disappoint especially for below retail price.
The Undefeated olive cargo pants are noticeably made of quality materials that are built to last. Minimal branding adds fine yet recognizable touches to the relaxed fitting pants. Spacious pockets and drawstrings at the leg openings are both necessary compliments.
Undefeated Olive Cargo Pants
Another Grailed pickup makes the cut. Undefeated pants might be my new go-to option; the fit and materials combine for an exceptional execution by the LA based label.
This particular pair was more of an impulse decision. However, since getting the pants in person, they have not been disappointing at all.
The reflective workout pants provide a fresh look to a comfortable clothing option. Perfect for casual wear and working out, this pair is a solid alternative to basic gray sweats.
Undefeated Reflective Workout Pants
Future Pickups
Vintage and streetwear are constantly evolving. Trends come and go, but personal touch is typically built to last. A individual’s particular style depends on the inspirations they draw from their surroundings and consumed media, ads, and previous purchases. Fashion niches like vintage and streetwear see endless changes due to numerous factors. However, one thing remains stagnant- the ability to express oneself freely and openly.
As time goes on, I am making a conscious effort to be more selective when buying clothing and accessories. It is easy to buy clothes to simply increase the size of one’s closet. In the future, personal pickups will focus on quality rather than quantity. Anything worthwhile should be of high quality and built to last.
Non-fiction books provide invaluable information when properly written and stories are effectively portrayed. Malcolm Gladwell focuses tying past events, influential individuals’ experiences, and important occurrences to relatable current day situations. Written storytelling has started taking a backseat to digital instances through visual and audio concepts.
Gladwell’s global reads realize the importance of keeping often forgotten stories alive; he emphasizes the significance of events which most people would deem inconsequential and insignificant to world history. Every small occurrence, no matter how nonessential they may seem, provides an opportunity to learn through others’ experiences.
Studying others’ experiences is the next best thing to learning from one’s own encounters. The author stresses long lost stories that might not seem like much in the grand scheme of things. All of Gladwell’s global reads follow a similar pattern of connecting past events to relate to the present and future. Malcolm Gladwell’s storytelling is unique and incomparable as he sets himself apart from other nonfiction authors. Nobody brings ordinary events to life like the English-born Canadian author.
The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell
Since being originally published in 2000, Gladwell focuses on how little things come to make a noticeable difference in the long run in The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference. A tipping point is defined as “the moment of critical mass, the threshold, the boiling point.” This point propels occurrences to a new height; things almost always change slowly over time, but with a tipping point, there is a noticeable impact that is felt almost immediately. Gladwell explains how social epidemics come about; trends and products spread like a wildfire once they reach the infamous point which leads them to a new dimension.
There are three essential rules of the Tipping Point: the Law of the Few, the Stickiness Factor, and the Power of Context.
The Law of the Few states that a select number of powerful people have a noticeable impact on social epidemics. As Gladwell articulates, “The answer is that success of any kind of social epidemic is heavily dependent on the involvement of people with a particular and rare set of social gifts” (Gladwell, The Tipping Point 33). The psychologist Stanley Milgram conducted an experiment in the late 1960s in an attempt to solve the small-world problem. Human beings are more connected that most people would expect.
In fact, Milgram’s experiment brought about the concept of six degrees of separation. However, all degrees of separation are not equal. Gladwell’s global reads explains how six degrees refers to the fact that “a very small number of people are linked to everyone else in a few steps, and the rest of us are linked to the world through those special few” (Gladwell, The Tipping Point 36-7). People know others based on the individuals they already know; acquaintances are typically met through existing friends and connections. In addition, the author explains how a social circle looks more like a pyramid than an actual circle; a single person or a few people at the top contribute a majority of the relationships in one’s life compared to others who are lower on the pyramid.
The Stickiness Factor refers to messengers and how they make social epidemics spread. Substantial content and the power of a messenger attribute to the “stickiness” of a particular message. Under the right circumstances and presented in a specific way, a message often finds itself memorable and attractive to the desired audience. Gladwell describes how the Stickiness Factor is similar to the Law of the Few. For instance, he states, “There is a simple way to package information that, under the right circumstances, can make it irresistible. All you have to do is find it” (Gladwell, The Tipping Point 132). For a defined messaged to contain a high level of “stickiness” requires a memorable concept that usually calls for some sort of action. Ideals must stick with an individual to gain any sort of traction before becoming a social epidemic.
Malcolm Gladwell’s third rule, the Power of Context, is as undoubtedly important as the previous two. He realizes how, “Epidemics are sensitive to the conditions and circumstances of the times and places which they occur” (139). Contextual adjustments typically tip epidemics more than most people would think. An environment will make or break a social epidemic; even the most minuscule details affect immediate surroundings. Whether an event occurs during the day or night, in the winter or summer, or in the Americas versus Asia all contribute to the likelihood of an epidemic tipping. Exact and rather ideal circumstances determine how society will react to a particular product or widespread concept. Context changes everything, often with the snap of a finger.
Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell
In one of his most recognized books, Outliers: The Story of Success, Malcolm Gladwell takes a deep dive into what separates the successful from the average and mediocre. Outliers are people whose achievements deviate from the norm; due to various reasons, a person’s full potential is not always achieved. Gladwell details how hard work and talent alone do not lead to success. Continuous time and effort over a prolonged period paired with favorable circumstances lead to some sort of lasting success.
The 10,000 hour rule is an essential concept that is often talked about when discussing a particular expertise. It usually takes about ten years to become a chess grandmaster- an exclusive title that requires countless hours of wins and losses to learn from. Gladwell explains that, “Ten thousand hours is the magic number of greatness” (Gladwell, Outliers 41). Ten thousand hours roughly translates to about ten years. Nobody gets better at anything without putting in endless time and energy.
In any case, ten years of focusing on a particular skill requires relentless determination and willpower. Practice is not something to be taken lightly, but instead, “It’s the thing you do that makes you good” (Gladwell, Outliers 42). Rehearsing the same skill can get monotonous at times; the ten thousand hours will not magically land on someone’s lap. To reach any type of worthwhile greatness requires continuous practice over an extended length of time.
In addition to innumerable hours dedicated to honing in on a particular skill, success calls for advantageous conditions to be met. Accomplishments do not come out of thin air. Gladwell states how, “Success is not a random act. It arises out of a predictable and powerful set of circumstances and opportunities…” (Gladwell, Outliers 155). Powerful individuals such as Bill Gates grew up in ideal environments that allowed him to reach the ten thousand hour threshold well before any of his peers. Without a doubt, surroundings affect people’s lives in the long run depending on how they choose to make the most of what is readily available and accessible.
Gates had access to one of the few time-sharing terminals at his high school. He was able to write code at a company that a classmate’s parent worked at. Also, Gated lived within walking distance of the University of Washington where there was free computer time in the early morning. Malcolm Gladwell stresses how not very little people in the world had or will have opportunities like Bill Gates. The right set of circumstances allowed Gates to propel his educational experience and ultimately jumpstart his entrepreneurial career.
Talking to Strangers by Malcolm Gladwell
One of Gladwell’s most recent works, Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don’t Know, stresses the importance of how people don’t communicate as effectively with others they are unfamiliar with. Miscommunication happens all the time. However, when poor communication reaches an extreme, it leads to tragic, undesirable, and often frustrating situations. One of the most important and more recent instances Gladwell focuses on is the devastating death of Sandra Bland near Prairie View A&M University in 2015. As a result, Gladwell seeks to explain what went south in a routine traffic stop that led to Bland’s arrest. He wants the reader to understand how her life could have been dramatically different if the officer knew how to handle the interaction with Bland.
Obviously, America has dealt with social divide throughout its whole existence. With the emergence and popularization of social media, the polarization has increased or seemingly risen over the past decade. Gladwell explains, “Prejudice and incompetence go a long way toward explaining social dysfunction in the United States” (Gladwell, Talking to Strangers 6). Both sides on the opposites spectrums of social views have their own biases. Each will attempt to justify their viewpoints with slim to no chances of admitting any wrongdoings. In particular cases, prejudice comes out to the front and rationality typically takes a back seat. People often don’t even want to acknowledge an outsider’s perspective. Evidently, nothing can bring strangers closer together than conversation.
As noted by Malcolm Gladwell, interactions with strangers usually don’t go as expected and often go terribly wrong. Two people who have never met have no idea what makes the other irritated or how to read their emotions. Deception is something humans have not been able to perfect, no matter how hard they try.
Furthermore, a psychologist by the name of Tim Levine has conducted the same straightforward experiment countless times throughout his career. He starts by inviting students to complete a trivia test for a cash prize. There is an instructor in the room who leaves midway through the test. They leave the participants to themselves to finish the test with nobody watching. One always tries to persuade the other to look into the envelope in order to find the answers. After the test is over, Levine interviews the participants in an attempt to see who tells the truth and who lies.
Even a seasoned professional like Levine cannot detect deception in humans. His research proves how bad people truly are at sensing a lie right in front of them. Gladwell explains how, “Evolution, over many millions of years, should have favored people with the ability to pick up the subtle signs of deception. But it hasn’t” (Gladwell, Talking to Strangers 72). Ana Montes executed one of the most infamous deceptions in the history of the United States.
As a DIA (Defense Intelligence Agency) agent, colleagues described Montes as intelligent and charming. However, she was a Cuban spy since she first joined the DIA. Nobody suspected Montes for years. After a while, her lies were exposed, but not by a colleague accusing her of deception. She worked as a double agent for many years without any major suspicion. Even some of the sharpest agents in the DIA, CIA, and FBI cannot detect lies like those from Montes.
A state trooper by the name of Brian Encinia pulled Sandra Bland over on July 10, 2015 in Waller County, Texas. She recently started a new job at Prairie View A&M University. Encinia stopped Bland for a failure to signal a lane change. The interaction quickly turned sour as the Texas State Trooper started questioning the young Black woman from Chicago. He noticed she was visibly irritated; he asked her to put out her cigarette after talking briefly. Then, Bland refused to do so which set Encinia off almost instantly. After asking her to step out of her car, Encinia forcibly removed Bland without any particular reason. He then charged her with felony assault for not complying with an officer’s orders.
In Talking to Strangers, Gladwell notes how many times Encinia made a mistake in his encounter with Sandra Bland. Next, he stresses the noticeable divide between the two parties that ultimately led to the arrest of Bland and her tragic death three days later. Arguably one of the most memorable quotes of the entire book, Malcolm Gladwell explains, “Because we do not know how to talk to strangers, what do we do when things go awry with strangers? We blame the stranger” (Gladwell, Talking to Strangers 346). Sandra Bland might still be alive today if Encinia dealt with strangers without blaming them first. However, there is another tragic story of a young Black woman whose life ended shortly after her arrest because of a police officer with a bruised ego.
RIP Sandra Bland 1987-2015
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Jimmy Wopo had Pittsburgh’s rap scene on lock during the prime of his career. He brought a new swagger and energy that was much needed for the city. Many people outside of Pennsylvania do not give enough respect to rappers to come out of the Burgh besides a few well known names such as Wiz Khalifa and the late Mac Miller.
Wopo was evidently on the rise at the time of his unfortunate death in 2018. He grew up rapping and ultimately achieved his dream of becoming a known artist in his own city as well as elsewhere in the United States.
Young Wopo Life
Travon DaShawn Frank Smart better known as Jimmy Wopo was born on January 13th, 1997 in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. He grew up in the Hill District, a predominantly Black neighborhood with historical significance in the city. Wopo started rapping at a young age after his mother called a local radio station to have him rap during a call in segment.
Growing up in the Hill District was not easy for anyone especially Jimmy Wopo. He described in an interview about being shot several times on different occasions. Despite the ongoing violence around him, Smart continued to focus on his craft and worked to reach his full potential. His perseverance and dedication to rapping would pay off in his near future.
Woponese
In early 2015, Jimmy Wopo started to take his rap career more seriously and starting posting songs on SoundCloud. The online music platform allowed him to gain traction rather swiftly. The Pittsburgh based hip-hop and rap blog, The Daily Loud, ran by Taylor Maglin quickly took an interest in the young rapper from the Hill. Maglin would later become Wopo’s right hand man and manager.
In July 2016, Jimmy Wopo’s debut album, Woponese, proved to be the start of something special. World Star Hip Hop exclusively premiered numerous music videos for Wopo leading to millions of views online. The hit single, “Elm Street” rapidly took the rap scene by storm. Jimmy Wopo had people outside of Pittsburgh buzzing about his catchy and original song. Complex included “Elm Street” in the “‘Bout to Blow: 10 Dope New Songs You Should Be Hearing Everywhere Soon” list in 2016. Fans even found striking similarities between “Elm Street” and Kendrick Lamar’s hit “Humble.” The well-known producer, Sonny Digital teamed up with Wopo on his debut album; Woponese was just the beginning of Wopo showcasing his unique rap abilities.
Burgh Ties
Jimmy Wopo was not shy to collaborations especially with other artists from Pittsburgh. As he gained more popularity, Wiz Khalifa started to take an interest in the energetic rapper coming out of the Hill District. Hardo, another Pittsburgh based rapper worked with Wopo on numerous occasions. The duo teamed up to release a joint album Trapnese in November 2016 with features from Wiz Khalifa, 21 Savage, and ShadyHigler.
The Pittsburgh trio collaborated once again in 2018. Wiz Khalifa’s song “Blue Hunnids” on Rolling Papers 2 featured Jimmy Wopo and Hardo. Rappers tend to work with other artists who have a similar flow as themselves. Although prominent Pittsburgh rappers like Wiz, Hardo, and Wopo all have their own unique styles, their flows all work cohesively.
Pittsburgh native, Taylor Maglin, a co-founder of The Daily Loud, brought Wopo invaluable exposure that propelled the young star’s rap career. Maglin eventually became Jimmy Wopo’s manager and continued to provide critical exposure for the rapper. The duo became close and developed a friendship outside of their work. Daily Loud gave Wopo a powerful and lasting platform to be influential outside the city of Pittsburgh.
Moving On
Pittsburgh’s rap scene is often limited and does not offer as many opportunities for advancement as other metros around the United States. Although Wopo became a local hit and expanded to other areas, he still looked to expand upon his talents in a more diverse and rewarding market.
Close ties with Wiz Khalifa unlocked many doors for Jimmy Wopo. The two had experience working together and originating from the same city. Khalifa and his crew knew how much potential Pittsburgh has to offer. Wiz Khalifa’s music group and label, Taylor Gang is known countrywide and even recognized in other countries as well. Wopo, like other rappers coming out of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania had bigger aspirations and goals that expanded outside of city and even state limits.
Long Live Wopo
In the very same neighborhood he grew up in, Jimmy Wopo was a victim of a drive-by shooting on June 18, 2018. He was fatally shot and did not survive the senseless act of violence. It’s not fair to see a young Black man like Travon Smart be denied of making it out of the city due to insensible actions. Right before he was shot, Wopo signed with Taylor Gang and had plans to move out of Pittsburgh to finally escape the violence surrounding him. He was only twenty one years old at the time of his unfortunate death.
His music will live on forever especially throughout his hometown. Listeners easily feel the passion in Wopo’s songs and could tell he was constantly evolving. Taylor Gang missed out on a generational talent who would have been an irreplaceable asset to the world-renowned music label.
Life can be full of ups and downs. Everyone knows life throws curves in every path that are far from ideal. It is essential to find various outlets to explore creativity, find peace, and stay active. There is no single activity that can stimulate the mind and provide for the body at the same time to the fullest extent. Some may prove to be better for creative growth than others, but it is vital to diversify oneself and never stop being inquisitive.
To be sane and healthy in all aspects of life requires a multi-faceted approach to handle all of the adversity that comes along. Everyone has their own stress relievers and outlets; people who consume too much without gaining some type of experience or knowledge rarely find themselves completely satisfied.
Bookworms
Reading is something that has been pushed to the side over the past few decades with the popularization of video games, tv shows/movies, and social media. Even just a few minutes of uninterrupted reading everyday can provide far more benefits than mindless hours on the internet. The knowledge in the world is endless; why should learning stop when someone graduates from high school or college?
There are various genres that all provide their own unique advantages. For example, psychology and sociology focused books give more insight on how the world works and how people around us interact with each other. An individual can interpret a book completely differently than the next person who reads the same exact words. There are no quizzes or grades when reading for knowledge and wisdom, but instead it is up to the reader to apply what they learned on the pages in front of them. Creative growth stems from reading various topics to gain valuable wisdom.
Although the internet is more popular than ever, reading physical books is an excellent way to unplug and take a break from the never-ending news and strong opinions of others seen online. Reading can give much needed mental breaks when used wisely; a good book can indirectly give valuable guidance on how to deal with the world around us. Non-fiction literary works often provide priceless insight and knowledge, but fiction can also prove to be useful and extraordinary in its own ways.
Fiction lets the imagination run free and open up room for creative growth. The mind gets lost in a fictional world where people do not have to deal with the constant pressure of living up to certain expectations in real life. Winding down by reading any type of fiction showcases the power of ingenuity when used correctly. Fictional novels allow real-world problems to take a back seat to get a closer view of an imaginative world where realistic issues do not concern the characters. Readers can learn just as much from novels as non-fiction informational books if they keep an open mind and allow imaginative events and characters to translate to the physical world around them.
Lovers of Footwear
Some people start dressing from the top down while others start with the feet first. Sneaker enthusiasts everywhere take pride in a new pair of fresh kicks and rocking them knowing it completes their outfit. Sneakers bring countless individuals together for numerous reasons.
The sneaker world holds endless possibilities for to make connections and to enjoying the ability to express oneself freely in a healthy way. Like sports, sneakers are easy to bond over. Someone walking down the street wearing a rare pair of shoes might be stopped by an enthusiast who appreciates certain pairs of shoes. There are always hot topics of discussion within the sneaker community. New releases, rumors about potential collaborations, and scandals are constantly talked about among people who are interested in sneakers.
People who invest countless hours, endless energy, and often too much money into sneakers are usually open to lend a helping hand to newbies and other enthusiasts who are respectful and relatable. The overall sneaker community (not sneaker resellers- two completely different groups) as a whole is generally welcoming and supportive. The community is not underground and “exclusive” like it used to be.
Sneakers bring people together rather than tear them apart.
Sure, there are plenty of limited releases that leave people empty handed. However, the individuals who put in their fair share of due diligence have a higher chance of success when going after more sought-after sneakers. Especially now, it is easier than ever to get into sneakers. People can walk into shoe stores and purchase quality pairs that would not have been sitting a few years ago. The secondary market is currently also in favor of most buyers who do not want to break the bank. Anyone who does their research can learn about the history of brands and specific sneaker models whenever they want. The sneaker world is more open than ever for people who are looking to get more serious about their footwear.
Fanatics and Fiends
Sports are more than a game. They bring millions of people together all over the world. Fans support one another and uplift those that are struggling in their personal lives. Sports provide a healthy escape from reality as well.
Whether through playing or watching, anyone who is part of a team knows how it feels to be part of a collective group with similar goals. Organized sports provide healthy and valuable outlets for countless children, teenagers, adults, and elderly people. Nothing can replicate the feeling when a team and its supporters come together as one.
Games are more than who scores more (or less) than an opponent. They represent much more than the actual scoreboard; sports teach individuals about important aspects all throughout life. Hard work, determination, perseverance, and team work are the obvious that often come to mind. However, other motifs show more about life than what is seen on the surface.
In sports and life alike, people quickly learn that things will not always go their way. Someone can do everything in their willpower to succeed, but it still might not be enough to reach the desired outcome. Sports and life are both difficult in their own respects and do not give hand outs no matter the circumstances.
Fans everywhere bond with other supporters of the same team no matter their gender, race, skin color, ethnicity, or sexuality. Sports bring millions of people who otherwise would have stayed divided or out of contact. In good and bad times, fans of sports teams support their teams and each other. The allegiance to a team is not something to be taken lightly. True fans devote endless time and energy in supporting their respected team on the way to victory.
Creative Growth Mindset
To stay stagnant in life is to live an unfulfilled life. Meaningful outlets like reading, sneakers, and sports provide substance and allow people to express themselves in healthy ways. No matter what someone chooses to do in life, there will always be potential to be honest about expressing oneself. Whether someone reads or paints in their free time, collects sneakers or grows plants does not make a huge difference as long as there are healthy outlets to deal with life’s ups and downs. Nobody can take life as it is without dedicating undivided time towards activities that enrich their life in some way.
Growing opens up countless doors for future possibilities. People with a fixed mindset typically don’t seek out rewarding or fulfilling opportunities to enhance creativity, knowledge, and overall health. Those who look for a chance to improve often do over time. Nobody can put in the time, energy, or effort for anyone else. Someone with a creative growth mindset often finds themselves as a constant learner and new experience seeker all throughout life.
One thing that never changes about life is the fact that it will always be changing. It’s only right to change with one’s surroundings rather than fight what is natural.
An individual will always have their own preferences. However, it is essential to stay open to new experiences and trying new things to keep living a fulfilling life. Books, sneakers, and sports are just a few outlets that can provide a sense of fulfillment, belonging, and purpose. All of these are interchangeable with any healthy outlet that allows a person to grow and express themselves.
Creative growth comes from within; an open mind allows for endless possibilities and opportunities.
Life is about reaching your full potential. It is easy to beat ourselves up when things aren’t going our way. All of the answers lie within and come when we stay open and never settle for anything less than we deserve. One thing about life that never changes is change itself. If we all knew what tomorrow holds, life would be mundane, monotonous, and morbid. Most of the future ahead is outside of our control. There are very few aspects of life everyone has a direct control over. It makes no sense to over stress about the countless details of life that occur with no regard for the billions of personal lives they affect.
Stoicism is something that the world can use more of especially in the current state of world affairs. Whatever life throws our way is part of life, regardless if the situation is favorable or not. The mind and the world are more connected than most people think. External circumstances do not create realities. However, the way an individual views the world around himself/herself is directly tied to personal thoughts and beliefs rather than external circumstances.
We can’t control what happens to us, only how we react and view the world around us.
Yes, the world can be harsh and cruel sometimes. Everyone goes through struggles of their own. There is no time to feel sorry for yourself. Focus on what truly matters. Anybody who has achieved some sort of success has not waited for the perfect time to go to work. There is no “perfect time.” Be real, learn more, and never settle.
Life is all about expecting the unexpected. Stay honest and never let rough times keep you down forever. As cliche as it sounds, it will always be true- tough times don’t last, tough people do.
Limitless Mind
To separate oneself from the events around them leads to limitless possibilities. Feeling like the world is out to get us or things don’t go our way limits the potential of the mind. Some of the best in various expertises have come from rather unfavorable circumstances.
LeBron James did not feel sorry for himself when he was growing up in an underprivileged neighborhood in Akron, Ohio with his single mother. He could have blamed his environment for his failures. However, we all know that isn’t the case for James. He focused on the future rather than letting his uncomfortable environment hold him back from reaching his full potential.
Too many people think taking care of themselves only relates to exercise and eating healthy. Never settling means to be constantly looking to improve upon all aspects of the body- physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Nobody can do these all at once at the same time. They are all connected and need sufficient time, attention, and effort dedicated to each.
The physical environment around us is important and can shape many respects of life, but the internal aspects are far more vital to achieving anything worthwhile. Bruce Lee captured the importance of the mind and explained, “Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water.” The mind cannot be rigid and set in its ways. Countless individuals may think they are learning, but only retain information which goes along with what they knew beforehand. To be shapeless is to be open before looking to improve.
A closed mind is a mind closed off.
Anyone who does not want to settle in life must remain open to new ideas that may not always be easy to accept. Settling leads to mediocrity. Social media (when used as an outlet to “escape reality”) breeds contentedness. However, someone can use the same platforms to learn about new ideas and network with countless people. The mind cannot differentiate between good and bad unless it is already empty.
Next Moves
To never settle is to look ahead while living in the present. Proper preparation prevents poor planning. The next move is not always the best move. Momentum propels the best moves and proves the wait to be worthy of the patience required for preparation and execution.
It isn’t enough to be working only in the moment or taking time to enjoy your (deserved or undeserved) breaks. The best of the best look to create and properly line up at least their next five moves, if not more. A predictable individual often finds themselves closer to falling off than they would originally think.
Being proactive and having a well-defined course of action already sets a person apart from the rest. Life is too unpredictable. It is vital to cook up the next moves so there is ample time and energy to deal with anything unplanned. A poorly planned person cannot adapt efficiently.
Time cannot be manipulated in our favor. More waiting around leads to less time for planning five or more moves to come. People aren’t able to break their personal best but simply moseying their way throughout life. The next best movie of this decade probably hasn’t started production yet or the newest professional sports team is years away from its inception.
We won’t be able to fully predict the future no matter how hard we try. Instead of over-focusing on the future, the present must be used to put future plans into perspective. It makes no sense to waste time focusing on the aspects of life outside of our direct control.
The future is out of our reach.
Nobody can predict what will happen to us or around us.
Be open to being okay with expecting the unexpected.
Delayed W’s
Life teaches us quickly that things don’t always go our way. People take every failure personally and think the world is out to get them. In reality, everyone goes through trials and tribulations all throughout life. The peaks and valleys vary depending on numerous conditions. Not many things in life are certain- one is the fact that everybody will fail, make mistakes, and fall down in one way or another.
To not learn from failures is almost the same as not learning anything new at all. Any setback can lead to a greater comeback, but only with the right mindset.
Losses can be approached in two ways: defeats with nothing to learn from them or experiences that turn into lessons. Experience is often the best teacher in life. Studying and theorizing only goes so far and cannot make up for practical knowledge. Business school is one example of too many theories. Numerous business professors have countless years of wisdom but no real-world business experience. Business owners are often better teachers since they have multiple years of work and some success to show. They go through the ups and downs of dealing with relentless customers, clients, and competitors.
To not learn from failures is almost the same as not learning anything new at all. Any setback can lead to a greater comeback, but only with the right mindset.
Nothing compares to having a pragmatic background that cannot be bought for any amount of money. Theories are essential but nowhere near as valuable as real-world experience that cannot be taught. Nobody can teach experience no matter how hard they try.
Wisdom comes in many forms.
The most valuable is the type that cannot be bought, exchanged, tested, or gifted.
Be Comfortable Being Uncomfortable
A person who often finds themself in their comfort zone tends to stay there. No real growth ever occurs within limits we find ourselves comfortable in. To never settle in life leads to sleepless nights, hard times, and relationships lost. In the end, everything happens for a reason. There’s no reason to try to change the past.
To be uncomfortable in a healthy yet demanding environment leads to countless opportunities for noticeable progress. Nobody can grow while sitting in bed watching tv shows or movies under a comfortable blanket. At the same time, doing the same thing everyday, even if it is productive, does not lead to much growth either.
Committing to the same actions while adding variations produces exorbitant results over a long period of time. No NBA All Star has ever gotten the award with only an off-season or two of uncomfortable and tiring work. They all put in the time and energy for multiple off-seasons and propelled themselves to new heights during the regular and post seasons. LeBron James and Michael Jordan did not get comfortable with winning one NBA championship or one MVP award; they pushed themselves to achieve greatness and break the limits they once put on themselves. To be one of the best requires relentless determination and will over an extended period of time.
The elite athletes, doctors, lawyers, and entrepreneurs all still make mistakes and slip up from time to time. There is no reason to chase the unattainable perfect game, surgery, legal outcome, or business deal. Choosing progress and growth over perfection allows a person to learn from their mistakes and move on rather than dwelling on slip ups.
Nobody becomes successful staying in their comfort zone. Seek progress, never perfection.
Settling For Greatness
Mediocrity is easy to fall victim to. If there was a simple and straightforward path to success and eternal happiness handed on a silver platter, there would be no such thing as success. Accomplishments set people apart. People who are destined for greatness tend to never settle in life.
Basketball is a lot like life. You can practice all the time and still not perform how you want to. In life, a person can put in the work day in and day out without noticeable results. All of the countless hours pay off when it is usually least expected. Success often follows failures and rough times.
The only way to achieve any worthwhile success is to never settle for anything short of greatness. Keeping high expectations and standards pushes a person to excel in their respected area of expertise.
Life will not bring greatness without the required time and undivided effort. Never settle for mediocrity- it’s better to not try at all than to willingly aim for average.
Shannon Lee has been an instrumental piece in preserving and continuing her father’s ideals and impact still felt around the world. She wrote Be Water, My Friend: The Teachings of Bruce Lee to show how her late father thought on a regular basis and how he approached life. This book talks directly to the reader rather than simply trying to explain certain events and concepts. Shannon Lee used her father’s teachings to express how he saw the world around him. She stresses how the reader should focus on their world while taking away valuable lessons from Bruce Lee’s remarkable life.
Since being published in 2020, Be Water, My Friend has been influential towards various individuals who are interested in martial arts and philosophy. Many of Bruce Lee’s philosophies have been especially relevant now in a world full of change. He was without a doubt ahead of his time and would have been an extremely influential figure in today’s society. Lee’s teachings provided clarity for numerous individuals who never knew how powerful the mind could truly be.
Bruce Lee is a legend that will never be forgotten. He was a pioneer who bridged the gap between Chinese martial arts and cinema with its American counterparts. Lee became a global icon of being fierce, yet calm and poised. Anyone who has seen Enter the Dragon (1973) knows how powerful Bruce Lee’s presence truly was. He knew he was a badass who could finish his opponents in an agile way. He relied on technique and finesse rather than brute force. Thankfully, Bruce Lee’s legacy will live on for numerous generations.
Formless Like Water
Bruce Lee focused on the importance of water and how it can be a metaphor for essential principles in everyday life. He stressed the significance of nature around us and how “Like flowing water, life is perpetual movement” (Lee 24). Life is never the same as it was yesterday; everyday brings new challenges and obstacles that we have no idea about. Although humans cannot see into the future, one thing we know for certain is how life will never be stagnant. Change requires flexibility and pliability like water. We have to adapt to our surroundings in order to flow with life’s currents.
“Like flowing water, life is perpetual movement.” -Bruce Lee
Perception is Reality
Bruce Lee emphasized the significance of learning from the world around you. Experience is without a doubt one of the best teachers anyone can have in life. Setbacks in life are prevalent; how we react to them is often more important than the act of failing itself. Lee explained how defeat does not make someone a failure.
“We are always in a process of becoming and nothing is fixed. Have no rigid system in you, and you’ll be flexible to change with the ever changing. Open yourself and flow, my friend. Flow in the total openness of the living moment. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. Moving, be like water. Still, be like a mirror. Respond like an echo.”
(Lee 156-7)
The importance of perception and the state of mind are both essential recurring themes in Be Water, My Friend. Lee brought up the fact that perception truly is reality: “You are the greater and the interpreter your life in every moment. Things have meaning to you because you give them that meaning—no one else” (Lee 140). Nobody can live a fulfilling life for you. A healthy state of mind goes hand in hand with clear perception. Powerful abilities come from the mind before anything else. The way someone thinks brings more power than any outside force ever will.
Self Worth
Be Water, My Friend stresses the importance of being your authentic self. Bruce Lee’s philosophies can be applied to millions of people’s lives. He wanted to help others by promoting self-confidence. Lee’s values are timeless and can teach many people more about life than studying a philosophy textbook.
Lee’s cognitive ability was often overshadowed by his martial arts talent, but he became a martial arts legend due to his intellectual prowess. Shannon Lee demonstrated the fact that her father knew how being true to yourself opens endless opportunities, “Do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. Start from the very root of your being which is ‘how can I be me?'” (Lee 200).
When failure is looking at us directly, it is often hard to see the lesson at the moment. However, if we keep our head up and keep moving on, we have the ability to learn from defeat in countless ways. Nobody is a failure until they deem themselves one. Any lasting and meaningful success will not come without some form of failure beforehand.
“Defeat is a state of mind; no one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality. To me, defeat in anything is merely temporary, and its punishment is but an urge for me to exert greater effort to achieve my goal. Defeat simply tells me that something is wrong in my doing; it is a path leading to success and truth.”
Lee 136
We often limit ourselves before even making an attempt at confronting something that might scare us. A healthy state of mind can lead to a world of endless possibilities. The opposite is essential to understand as well. If we have limiting thoughts, our potential to achieve great things will be restricted too.
Lee’s Transformation: Be Water
One of the most important aspects of the book is how Bruce Lee transformed himself after deeming himself too rigid and traditional. Lee established his own martial arts school called the Jun Fan Guy Fu Institutes in Seattle, Washington and Oakland, California. In 1964, the San Francisco Chinatown community was extremely upset with Lee’s rebellious ways after he opened up he is second school in Oakland. They felt he was disrespecting their ways and challenged him to a match to determine the outcome of Lee’s future in teaching martial arts. If he won, he would be able to continue teaching his ways as usual, but if he lost, he would have to quit his teaching. Obviously, Bruce Lee would not back down from this challenge.
The match took place in November 1964 at Bruce Lee’s school in Oakland. The opposition was a fighter who was randomly selected and less skilled than Lee. Since he had the fight on his home turf, he elected for no official rules during the match. Traditional ways were nowhere to be found in the quarrel. Lee chased his opponent around until he finally pinned the man down on his back, yelling repeatedly in Cantonese, “Do you give up?!” until the opponent gave in and ended the match. Lee was nowhere near satisfied, even though he won the fight without a doubt. He threw any sort of technique out the window in order to win and quickly understood how important it was to become more flexible.
This particular fight in Lee’s career proved to be a significant moment of truth. He realized his traditional and rigid techniques would not get him very far in life. Bruce Lee knew his limited martial arts methodology must be put to rest. He had a friend create him a mini tombstone which read: “In memory of a once fluid man crammed and distorted by the classical mess” (Lee 60). Shannon Lee explained how this symbolized a turning point in her father’s life.
He had to alter his orthodox ways to get back to his free-flowing approach. She added, “It was a reminder to move forward like flowing water” (Lee 60). Without the fight and the symbolic mini-tombstone, Bruce Lee most likely would not have been as widely known as he is today. His ability to adapt and force himself to become more fluid proved to be invaluable for his entire life.
Lee brought a new approach to his environment and adapted it according to his ideals and beliefs. He did not confine himself to traditional martial arts standards. His expression of martial arts reflected how he viewed the world around him. Jeet Kune Do, which translates to “The Way of the Intercepting Fist,” is one of Bruce Lee’s most impactful works of art. Lee did not like to call it a style of martial arts. He viewed it as an expression and philosophy that conveys his principles in a nonverbal manner. He often questioned traditional practices of kung fu. Lee believed a person had to be prepared for an opponent’s next move rather than already having a premeditated and rigid approach. Being adaptable to an opponent leaves room for more creativity and fluidity. Jeet Kune Do stresses the importance of balancing give and take in martial arts.
Never Forgotten
The legend of Bruce Lee lives on today and will for the foreseeable future. Even today, martial arts and social justice exude Lee’s influence. Lee always sought to bring awareness of supporting minority groups, especially Asian Americans and African Americans. Bruce Lee dealt with racism during his cinematic career in Hollywood. Due to this, he did not want Asian Americans to be in roles with a negative connotation. He used his experience to become an ally to other minorities who were subject to oppression. Everyone can learn from Lee by supporting those who do not have a heard voice and judging an individual by their character rather than how they look.
Bruce “Little Dragon” Lee became a martial arts icon as he continued to teach and promote his own practice. He did not back down from any opponent and definitely did not limit his abilities and teachings to a strict set of rules. Lee stressed the importance of a flexible approach in martial arts and life throughout his respected philosophies.
Unfortunately, he was not able to see the official release of one of his greatest accomplishments. On July 20, 1973, Bruce Lee passed away at the young age of 32 in Hong Kong due to swelling of the brain. The premier of Enter the Dragon was on August 19, almost exactly a month after Lee’s tragic death. May we never fail to forget the impact Bruce Lee continues to have on the martial arts community, the Chinese and Chinese-American communities, and countless supporters around the world who admire his work and philosophy.
RIP “Little Dragon”
Lee, Shannon. Be Water, My Friend: The Teachings of Bruce Lee. Flatiron Books, 2020.